Robert Oostdyk

Robert H. Oostdyk

Tuesday, October 6th, 1936 - Tuesday, October 13th, 2020
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Robert H. Oostdyk, 84, on October 13, 2020 of Pompton Plains, NJ. Born in Teaneck, NJ, Bob had lived in Pompton Plains before recently moving to West Milford. Following his career with Nabisco, he was a self-employed CPA and Financial Planner. He was a member of the The Chapel (Lincoln Park), and over the years was very active in various activities of the church.

Bob was the beloved husband of Alice (Vander Plaat) Oostdyk. Devoted father of Robert Oostdyk and his wife Rhonda of Pompton Plains, NJ, Timothy Oostdyk and his wife Sheila of Lititz, PA and David Oostdyk of Grand Rapids, Michigan. Loving grandfather of Luke, Alyson, Pauline, Dylan and Jessica.

A memorial service will be held at The Chapel, 264 Jacksonville Road, Lincoln Park, NJ on Saturday, October 17, 2020 at 2:00PM

Bob’s family truly appreciates the outpouring of love and support and is not expecting people to be physically present. If you are uncomfortable or unable to take part in the service that have been planned for Bob, the family understands and shares your concern In lieu of your physical presence, the family is most grateful for a card or letter to share your memories with them or electronic message on Bob's memory wall.

In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in Bob’s memory to The Chapel, 264 Jacksonville Road, Lincoln Park, NJ 07035, Compassion, or the Eastern Christian Children's Retreat, 700 Mountain Ave. Wyckoff, NJ.

Arrangements were held by Vander Plaat – Vermeulen Memorial Home, 530 High Mountain Road Franklin Lakes, NJ ( )
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    Saturday, October 17th, 2020 | 2:00pm
    Saturday, October 17th, 2020 2:00pm
    Jacksonville Chapel
    264 Jacksonville Road
    LINCOLN PARK, NJ 07035
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Ralph Rypkema

Posted at 04:03pm

Alice, I wish you peace and comfort as you grieve.
My thoughts and prayers are with you and the family in your time of grief.


June Strieby

Posted at 11:15pm

Alice, my sincere condolences to you and your family. May you find peace I knowing that the studded is finished.

Kragh Hertel

Posted at 11:02pm
Alice, your devoted caregiving for Bob reflects the love and memories you shared together, and I pray that love and those memories are a comfort to you now when you need them. My deepest sympathy, Kragh Hertel.

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